This title speaks of holding on to one thing while acquiring something else. And, while this may be true, today I am speaking specifically concerning love. Iyanla Vanzant writes in her book “In the Meantime,” that the highest expression of love is more of who you are, more of what you are, what you do, and what you have. Love can bring all of YOU together. Love, she writes, is the experience of oneness.” Since we are all unique and each relationship is different, we gain more knowledge of who we are with every relationship. The more you love you the more you can love. Stop reducing you to gain love. Maintain while you gain and then gain some more. We all have the capacity to fully love ourselves while loving someone else. #Loveforthought Have you ever found yourself loving yourself less to love someone else?