Feeling Stressed, perplexed, or depressed? Do not be embarrassed when you find yourself overwhelmed. Learn how to ask for help. One of my favorite things to say is, “Things change when it’s your turn.” In other words, we often live in glass houses. Do we look at other people and declare what is wrong with them? Why can’t they do this or that? Or even if that were me, I would, or they should have. Truth is, how you will react in a situation is often determined by the circumstances and your ability to respond financially, emotionally, or intellectually instantly. Remember, no one is an island, and no man stands alone; I learned that in the sixth grade. If you have fallen, ask someone to help you up. Don’t be ashamed. Trust me, everyone gets a turn. What’s one thing that happened in your life that you responded to differently than you thought you would?