The proof of love I have read is the willingness to change – Mike Murdock. Consider a twist; the evidence of love can also be the willingness to remain the same. Change happens when love evolves, but my commitment to stay the same when you are unwilling to grow suffices that my love for you is unconditional. When your loved one says, “if you loved me, you would,” you can respond by saying, “BUT I DO LOVE YOU,” I have not changed.